I recently finished Dr. Weil's book Spontaneous Happiness (ISBN: 9780316129442). I didn't know much about the book before I picked it up but I'm glad that I read it. Here are the notes I took from my reading.
Quotes
"One who contains content, remains content." ~ Lao-tzu"[Happiness] is determined more by the state of one's mind than by one's external conditions, circumstances, or events - at least once one's basic survival needs are met." ~ Dalai Lama
"In order for man to succeed in life, god provided him with two means, education and physial activity. Not separately, one for the soul and the other for the body, but for the two together. With these two means, men can attain perfection." ~ Plato
"Gratitude is an attitude."
"The thankful receiver bears a plentiful harvest." ~ William Blake.
"All life is an experiment. The more experiments you make the better." ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson.
Vocabulary, Ideas & Concepts
- lagom
- Swedish for "just right" or "exactly enough." It permeates their entire culture and daily life.
- MBSR
- Mindfulness-Based Stres Reduction. Basically a form of meditation to lessen stress.
- dysthymia
- mild chronic depression. Dr. Weil has suffered this in the past.
- eudaimonia
- wellbeing: a contented state of being happy and healthy and prosperous. In Aristotle's works, eudaimonia was used as a term for the highest human good, and so it is the aim of practical philosophy, including ethics and political philosophy, to consider (and also experience) what it really is, and how it can be achieved. at Wikipedia.
- Three Interventions
- (positive psychology): Pleasure, Flow & Meaning.
- "Society of the maximal self"
- encourages an obsessive focus on the individual rather than the group. Seligman believes much unhappiness springs from it.
- Mental Nutrition
- "I advise you to take particular care with your choices of media. . . . Often it exacerbates anxiety and the sense of being overwhelmed and out of control." Consider a 'news fast' once a week.
- millinery
- women's hats. Making of hats and headwear. Dr. Weil's parents owned a millinery shop in Philadelphia. (has nothing to do with happiness but I never saw the word before)
- Age of Social Isolation
- Dr. Weil suggests this as another name for the Information age.
- Johrei
- (浄霊 literally “purification of the spirit”), sometimes spelled "Jyorei", is a healing ritual that claims to use "divine light" to dissolve the spiritual impurities that are the source of all physical, emotional, and personal problems. It was by developed in Japan in the 1930s by Mokichi Okada. at Wikipedia. Reminds me of reiki.
People
Martin Seligman, PhD at University of Pennsylvania. Convened the first positive psychology summit in 1999.Aaron T. Beck, regarded as the father of cognative therapy. He developed a cognative theory of depression in the 1960s. Called negative views "schemas." His work influenced Seligman.
Books
Coyote Medicine by Lewis Mehl-Madrona. A fusion of modern psychology and ancient wisdom.The Art of Happiness: A Handbook for Living, by Howard C. Cutler, MD & HH the Dalai Lama
Winter Blues by Norman E. Rosenthal, MD. Classic treatise on Seasonal Affective Disorder (now recognized in DSM-IV). Also SSAD: Subsyndromal Seasonal Affective Disorder.
Authentic Happiness, by Martin Seligman.
The Mantram Handbook, Eknath Easwaran. About meditation and how to choose a mantram (mantra).
Links
MindAndLife.org, The Mind and Life Institute is a non-profit organization dedicated to exploring the relationship of science and Buddhism as methodologies in understanding the nature of reality. The institute has affiliates including notable scientists, and Buddhist practitioners, the most notable of which is Tenzin Gyatso, the 14th Dalai Lama. at WikipediaDrugs.com/sfx, Drug Information Online. For side effects of meds including psychological side effects.
DrugWatch.com, Keeping an eye on pharmaceuticals. Also for side effects of meds including psychological side effects.
Positive Psychology Center at University of Pennsylvania.
NACBT.org, National Association of Cognitive-Behavorial Therapists.
'A Wandering Mind Is an Unhappy Mind' report in Nov. 12, 2010 issue of Science about an experiment conducted by Havard psychologists Matthew A. Killingsworth and Daniel T. Gilbert. I wanted to link to the magazine article but couldn't find it, if you search for the title of the report you can find many web sites talking about the report.
LaughterYoga.org
Good News Sites:
HappyNews.com
GoodNewsNetwork.org
OdeWire.com, News for intelligent optimists. (especially recommended by Dr. Weil.)
Breath Work
1. Put your attention on the breath whenever possible.2. Whenever you can, try to make your breathing deeper, slower, quiter, and more regular.
3. Let your belly expand outward when you inhale.
4. To deepen breathing, practice exhaling more air at the end of each breath.
The 4-7-8 Breath
The most effective anti-anxiety measure I know is a quick and simple breathing technique I call the 4-7-8 breath. Here it is:
1. Place the tip of the tongue against the ridge behind and above th front teeth. Keep it there through the whole exercise.
2. Exhale completely through the mouth (and puckered lips), making a whoosh sound.
3. Close the mouth and inhale deeply and quietly through the nose to a (silent) count of 4.
4. Hold the breath for a count of 7.
5. Exhale through the mouth to a count of 8, making the same sound.
6. Repeat steps 3, 4, and 5 for a total of four breaths.
This can be done in any position; if seated, keep the back straight. Do this exercise at least twice a day and, in addition, whenever you feel stresed, anxious, or off center. Do not do more than four breaths at one time for the first month of practice but do the exercise as often as you wish. After a month, if you are comfortable with it, increase to eight breaths each time and gradually slow your counts down. The minimum practice is then eight breaths twice a day, every day.
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